Alex, Jolie, Rowan, Isla, and Maryn

Alex, Jolie, Rowan, Isla, and Maryn

Friday, June 27, 2014

June Goal Update~

June is almost done!  It just can't be.  That means that I have been out of school for about a month. Eeek!!!  We made some progress this month, so here is the update.


1. Pay off Jolie's undergraduate loan by October 1.
If I said we had 100% of the loan left to 
pay when we made the goal, we are 
now down to  58% 42% of the loan left.  
We made more progress here than I 
anticipated.  It is exciting to see it going 
down!  

2. Establish a will

Sad heart.  We still haven't done anything 
on this one.  I may have to make a phone
 call myself in order for progress to be made.  

3. Read the Bible in 1 year

I'm almost caught back up with this. 
 I'm within days of where I should be.

4. Read 30 books by December 31, 2014

I have read  18 23 books so far in 2014. 
The most interesting read this month was
 titled, Grace and Grit by Lilly Ledbetter. 
It was from the United Methodist Women's 
reading list.  It was a memoir of a 
manager at Goodyear who was female.  
She worked for the company for 20 years 
in deplorable working environments.  
She eventually determined she was making
 THOUSANDS less than her male 
counterparts in the 1990s through 
an anonymous tip left in her mailbox,
 and she sued the company for discrimination.  
The book followed her career, search 
for justice, and the ultimate outcome of 
the trial.  It was shocking that this happened 
so recently, and it was an excellent read!


Summer Fun- Week 3 and 4~

I had jury duty for two days this week (you can read about the experience here), and then I had to work Wednesday and Thursday at school.  Can we say not summer vacation this week?  Consequently, I'm behind on a great deal of house things, and I am sad that we didn't do a lot of fun stuff this week.  It was mere survival.  Last week, though, we were able to cross some things off of the list.  Hopefully, July will be a calmer month than June;-)  Here's the update~

1. Fondue for Supper   
2. Swimming Lessons for Rowan and Isla Done!  I love that we have a relationship with the teacher and the home where we take lessons.  My children are loved, and I feel welcomed.  The kids did great, and both of them are much better swimmers than when we started.
3. Nature Camp for Rowan 
4. VBS for Rowan and Isla This starts on July 13.  I'm really starting to pound out some craft preparation.  I'm getting a bit stressed on this one.
5. Swimming at the North Pool  I had in mind that we would go today, but the weather is cloudy and yucky.  We will get there!!
6. Bowling
7. Movie Theater 
8. Going Bonkers We got rained out one day last week for swimming lessons.  We took advantage of the free morning, and we went.
9. Picnic at the Park
10. Smores over the Firepit
11. Sprinkler Fun  x3
12. Travel to Grammy and Poppe's House
13. Summer Reading Program for Rowan and Isla Went to the library again today.  Rowan is almost done, and Isla has a bit more than him.  This will easily be crossed off!
14. Paint Rocks
15. Zoo
16. Gage Park and Train
17. Fishing with Dad  Alex and his parents took the kids fishing at a local pond on Father's Day.  Alex caught a fish, but I believe that was the only success.  
18. Make Ice Cream 
19. Sidewalk Chalk   
20. Make Cookies for Friends
21. Farmer's Market We have baseball right now on Saturday mornings, so we haven't been able to go every Saturday, but we love the market here!  The kids get a treat, face painted, balloon, and we buy fresh produce.  It is fun for all!
22. Discovery Center
23. Baseball for Rowan Underway, and we are having fun!  
24. Fourth of July Fireworks
25. Water Balloon Fight
My little base runner!

He's got some good focus!

Rowan spends most of his swimming time underwater which makes for hard pictures;-)

Loving Miss Shelly!

Sonic Happy Hour!!

Two Thumbs up for Mom!

More Swimming!
Going Bonkers!

Playing Together!

Kenwood Cove in Salina!  It was great, but there were thousands of people there!!

Rolling Hills Zoo!  

Sibling Love

The Cheeser!!

Oh, how we love snakes!

Uncle Seth teaching Rowan the art of the rubix cube!

Thursday, June 26, 2014

Jury Duty~

On the last day of school, I received a jury summons for the third week in June.  I freaked out a little, and then Alex piped in that I wouldn't have to go being Group 13.  I kept the card, figured I'd call in the Sunday before and be dismissed.  If I had only known...

We were out of town Sunday, but I decided I'd check the district court website about 3 p.m. to see if they had updated the jury status for the week.  Much to my surprise, they called groups 1-19.  I panicked, not because I  had to go serve jury duty, but because I had 0 plan for my children.  Remember, I wasn't going in. so this wasn't on my radar even a little bit.  I was supposed to work Tuesday through Thursday, so Alex's sister was coming to stay with us to babysit.  We quickly called to see if she would oblige for a 4th day, and she agreed.  Whew!

Monday morning I got up and headed to the courthouse.  I parked in the parking garage, and I walked up to the 4th floor with a lot of other people!  I mean A LOT of other people. Clearly, we were all in the same boat.  They checked us in and shuffled us into a courtroom.  At one point, I got tired of sitting in silence, and I started counting.  I stopped at 116 people.  We sat in awkward silence for more than an hour before the coordinator came in and hit play on a video.  It was about a 25 minute video on the jury process narrated by Bill Kurtis, if you know who that is.  There were things I had never heard before, but I still wasn't clear on what was about to happen. At this point, it was about 10:00 a.m.  I'd already been there for almost 2 hours, and the only thing I had learned was what the process looked like. They then read a series of names and sent half of us to a second courtroom and gave us a 15 minute break.  Break, who needs a break?  We hadn't done anything...

We returned from the break, and they placed 45 of us in numbered seats.  I was not one of these people. Those of us without numbers were ushered to various parts of the courtroom to get out of the way.  I counted over 100 of us again in this room.  It was at this moment that the judge came in and instructed us that jury selection was about to begin in a 1st degree homicide case with charges of aggravated battery and theft as well.  There was a second murder trial going on next door which necessitated all of the jurors. The prosecutor came in, his assistant, 3 lawyers for the defendant as well as the defendant himself.  I had no words...

It quickly became clear that the numbered 45 were the pool, and those of us on the outside were fillers. The judge instructed us the trial would last 7 days.  Then they started the process by asking basic eligibility questions.  Do you live in this county?  Are you 18?  Have you been summonsed in the last year? Are you a nursing mother?  Is there a reason this trial would cause a hardship?  One by one they eliminated jurors using these questions.  Each time they eliminated someone from the pool of 45, they called a name from the "extras" to sit in their seat.  My name was called the third time a juror was eliminated, and I became known as Juror 16.

Once we made it through determining everyone in the pool was eligible, we introduced ourselves-all 45 of us.  We had a script that included: name, years lived at residence, occupation, spouse's occupation, children and ages, and if you were an officer of any clubs or organizations.  We went down the line and both lawyers scribbled notes diligently jotting every single word down next to our numbers.  I'm not even certain how long this took, as I was just processing what my body was in the middle of at that moment.

At the conclusion of the introductions, they recessed for lunch.  We still had no idea the length of time jury selection would take.  I went to lunch and panicked what I would do with my children for 7 days if I had to report to jury duty!

After lunch, we returned to our numbered seats.  The prosecutor stood up, and it became clear he was going to ask us more in depth questions to weed out the jurors who would have experiences or opinions that would make us biased for any reason.  The prosecutor's style was to ask a question, have us hold up our numbers if it applied to us, and then go through the numbers speaking out loud with each person to determine if there was an issue.  These questions included: Do you read the newspaper?  Are you familiar with the case?  Do you know any police officers?  Do you know anyone on the jury panel with you?  Are there life experiences that would bias you in this case?  Do you know any of the witnesses?  Would you be able to look at graphic photographs?  Again, all we knew was the defendant's name and that it was a 1st degree murder charge resulting from a stabbing.  If he excused a juror for any reason, the defense had to approve it, and then the judge excused the juror.  (By the way, they don't easily let you out of your obligation. There was one girl that tried at least 4 times before they finally just dismissed her, because it was clear that she did not want to be there).  They then called another name from the extras, and the seat was filled again. We back tracked with that one juror and made sure they passed the initial screening questions, introduced themselves, and then the prosecutor went back through each of his questions.  I have no idea how many times we did this, but it was a lot!  It was tedious and time consuming.  Before long, we looked up, and it was 4:57.  They instructed us not to watch the news and to report tomorrow at 9 a.m. for the continuation of the selection process.  Ugh.

On Tuesday, I reported again.  All 45 numbered jurors were present as well as the extras, so the process continued.  Before we even started, they disqualified three jurors for various reasons. One had seen the news and felt biased, one determined a financial hardship would be had on his family if he missed work for 7 days, and one had health issues.  We filled the three sports, back tracked through all of the previous questions, and before long, the prosecution determined us all eligible.  But we weren't done....

The defense attorney then stood up and proceeded through her line of questioning.  She had a very different interview style of the pool.  She identified specific jurors she wanted more information from, and she had a one on one conversation with them in front of the entire group.  My conversation mainly consisted of being a teacher, the subject I taught, and the feelings I had of police officers as compared to civilians.  The trend of the process was to stand, hold up your number, and speak loudly for the court reporter to hear.  At this point, both lawyers could refer to most of us by name and not number.  Then she asked various jurors about Facebook, if we believed there were other types of murders besides premeditated, whether we worked well with others, whether we were introverts or extroverts, etc.  I had a much harder time understanding what type of information she was trying to find from each of us.  I believe through her questioning, she only eliminated a couple of jurors.  At this point, we were fairly weeded out, and we were getting antsy.  About 11:45 a.m. on the second day, the defense attorney passed us as an eligible panel.

They then began the jury selection process.  They did not explain this to us, but from what I could tell, they had each of the 45 jurors listed on a large yellow tablet.  The prosecution started, and they crossed a name off.  They got up, walked the tablet over to the defense, and they crossed a name off.  This was all done while we, the jury panel, sat in front of them in total silence.  They continued until noon.  At that point, they recessed us for lunch, and told us to report back at 1:30.  Upon returning from lunch, the process continued.  The attorneys whispered to each other, scratched names off, and then handed the pad to the other side. At 2:55, the prosecution said, "We are done."  They had crossed all of the names off except the 15 jurors.  He handed the pad to the judge who looked it over.  She indicated she would read the names of those not chosen for the panel, and we were to remain seated until she dismissed us.

She started through the list.  I was the 17th name of 30 read of the dismissed jurors.  What a relief!  They chose 12 jurors and 3 alternates.   In the end, they chose 8 men and 4 women for the jury panel.  Some of the panel had spoken a great deal; some had spoken only in their introduction.  Three of the women had no children, and the men were a combination of young and retired.  There was strategy, I am sure, but I can't tell you what either of their strategies were.

At the end of day 2, I was exhausted, relieved, and troubled, that 15 of my peers would have to determine the innocence or guilt of the individual I looked at for 2 days.  Due to the nature of the first degree murder charge, a determination of sentencing upon guilt was also part of the jury's responsibility.  I have no idea how I would have processed my responsibility in the sentence of another person, and I was so thankful I didn't have to be part of that decision.

After arriving home and hugging my children, I googled the case.  It involved the death of a female, and I then remembered reading about it in the newspaper!  For the entire two days, I had in my mind that the victim was male...

I have a much larger understanding of the jury selection process and importance on the outcome of a trial.  I would have never dreamed my jury summons would lead me to this experience, but what a valuable experience it was to be a part of.      

Thursday, June 12, 2014

Summer Fun-Week 2~

Summer is going great.  It is amazing-really!  No stress, the house is clean, I search for recipes and cook them nightly, I have time to read and exercise.  I'm thinking about letting Alex know that my summer isn't going to end this year.  It will just be summer all year long.  I'm pretty sure I know what he will say to that, but hey, a girl can dream;-)  

 It has been cold and rainy here.  Not my idea of summer, but it has contributed to the clean house.  This week I tackled the mini-blinds.  Gross, gross, gross is all I can say, and I am glad that domestic chore is done!  We made some progress on the list below and some of my honey-do-list.  Yeah for progress!


1. Fondue for Supper   

2. Swimming Lessons for Rowan and Isla In progress as we speak.  We will go for 10 lessons.  So far it has been very COLD, but they have been troopers!
3. Nature Camp for Rowan 
4. VBS for Rowan and Isla This starts on July 13.  We are in planning mode at church now.
5. Swimming at the North Pool
6. Bowling
7. Movie Theater I took the kids to The Lego Movie on Saturday so Alex could paint Isla's bedroom unassisted.  Isla struggles with movies, but she did okay.  Rowan loved it, of course.
8. Going Bonkers
9. Picnic at the Park
10. Smores over the Firepit
11. Sprinkler Fun  x3
12. Travel to Grammy and Poppe's House
13. Summer Reading Program for Rowan and Isla Went to the library again on Monday.  The kids are rocking it.
14. Paint Rocks
15. Zoo
16. Gage Park and Train
17. Fishing with Dad
18. Make Ice Cream Oh, this could be dangerous.  So easy to do in my new maker I got for my birthday.
19. Sidewalk Chalk   We did this on Saturday again so Alex could paint.  Rowan was drawing aliens with bombs.  Isla drew the sun.  Their choices seem telling of their brains at the moment.
20. Make Cookies for Friends
21. Farmer's Market
22. Discovery Center
23. Baseball for Rowan We started baseball 2 weeks ago.  So far, it has been rained out twice.  Hopefully, we will have our first game on Saturday.
24. Fourth of July Fireworks
25. Water Balloon Fight
Isla has spent many hours doing this!


Rowan holding the snake Diego at Nature Camp.  EWWWW!!!

Movies!

Look at that adorable grin!

Smile!

The legos have kept us entertained for hours as well.

What did we ever do before tablets???

That boy on the ground is a garden statue.
They kept throwing
him over, and then they would
go rescue him.  It was hysterical to watch.

Working hard at swimming!

The monkey crawl~
Isla spends a great deal of time here during swimming lessons;-)

Kicking and blowing bubbles~

Sunday, June 1, 2014

Summer Fun-Week 1~

We are into the joys of summer, and I love it!  It is peaceful, stress free, and I'm really just trying to give myself some time to enjoy life.  We didn't have any camps this week, so we were free to make up our own schedule.  It rocked, and I'm a little sad to start the camp thing tomorrow.  I'm sure that pace will have it's joys too.  

We made some headway on our list.  I'm thinking I maybe should have stretched myself a little bit more on the summer fun list.  We did quite a lot this week.

1. Fondue for Supper   
2. Swimming Lessons for Rowan and Isla
3. Nature Camp for Rowan This is this week. I'll be hauling Rowan up north for nature camp!
4. VBS for Rowan and Isla
5. Swimming at the North Pool
6. Bowling
7. Movie Theater
8. Going Bonkers
9. Picnic at the Park
10. Smores over the Firepit
11. Sprinkler Fun  x3
12. Travel to Grammy and Poppe's House
13. Summer Reading Program for Rowan and Isla We are working on this for both kiddos. We went to the library on Friday and got stocked up for the week!
14. Paint Rocks
15. Zoo
16. Gage Park and Train
17. Fishing with Dad
18. Make Ice Cream Oh, this could be dangerous.  So easy to do in my new maker I got for my birthday.
19. Sidewalk Chalk
20. Make Cookies for Friends
21. Farmer's Market
22. Discovery Center
23. Baseball for Rowan
24. Fourth of July Fireworks
25. Water Balloon Fight
Sprinkler slide fun~


Rowan's got moves~

They could do this for hours~

I love both hands above her head!

Cheese~
Rowan paint, paint, painted~

The finished product~
Discovery Center ropes course!
Balancing Beam~
Pretty Girl~


Roasting Marshmallows~


Catching Up~Soccer and Singing

I got a little behind on the happenings at the end of school.  Better late than never:-)

Rowan played soccer and Alex coached this last spring.  I've grown an appreciation for soccer not having ever played any soccer in my life.  We had a mostly new team this year, which had it's challenges and it's blessings.  We met many new people in our area, and I'm thinking this team might be together for a while.

Rowan improved a tremendous amount between fall soccer and the end of the spring season.  He is growing more coordinated, and he is genuinely interested in soccer, I think.  He had fun, and for us, that's the end goal.
Get it, Rowan!

Herd Ball

Goalie

Run!
 Next up is baseball.  He'll play through the Y, and he starts on Tuesday.  Isla has been practicing with Dad and Rowan to brush up on her skills too;-)

You caught it!

Being goofy!
 The last week of school, Rowan had his music concert at school.  It was three Kindergarten classes together.  They sang everything they had practiced, so we got a smattering of Halloween, Christmas, Valentine's Day, and Spring songs.  It was precious, but Rowan was much more interested in being the entertainment than being a focused singer;-)
The mummy song~

Smiling for the camera~

Peace~